C this is it.......

Love comes when we least xpect it, when v r not lookin for it.Hunting for Love never brings the right partner.It only creates longing and unhappiness. Love is never outside ourselves, Love is within us.
Don't insist that Love come immediately.Perhaps u r not ready for it,or u r not developed enough to attract the love u want.
Don't settle for anybody just to have someone.Set your standards.What kind of love do u want? List the qualities in yourself, and you will attract a person who has them.
U might examine what may b keepin love away.Cud it b criticism?Feelings of unworthiness?Unreasonable standards? Movie star images? Fear of intimacy? A belief that u r unlovable?
Be ready for love when it does come. Prepare the field and b ready to nourish love. Be loving, and u will b lovable. Be open and receptive to love.




It seems all of life is relationships. We have relationships wid evrythin.
Relationships r mirrors of ourselves.
This is the only way to change otherz------change ourselves first. Change ur patterns, and u will find that "they" are different, too.
Blame is useless.Blaming only gives away our power.Keep ur power. Without power, v cannot make changes. The helpless victim cannot c a way out....